Find Your Awesome with Robert Kandell


Robert Kandell has been helping men find themselves for fourteen years. By creating a relationship of absolute approval with his clients he is able to see the parts, which are hidden in their shadows: fetishes, hurts and hidden desires. With a loving hand, he encourages men to accept these traits and utilize them as internal power. An expert in interpersonal communication and relationships, he has helped thousands of students find a more balanced, energized life with better relationships, more sex and more happiness. His coaching style is challenging, fraternal and highly rewarding and definitely not for the faint hearted, he has been described as “part football coach, part loving dad and part slightly crazed drill sergeant.” He is the host of the highly successes podcast, Tuff Love.

This episode is powerful. Robert and I dig into masculine and feminine dynamics and explore questions like, why men don’t trust women and why women believe that men aren’t listening. We discuss how men and women can support each other and how “society teaches us to be mediocre communicators.” Robert calls women out on our struggle to receive and explains how all men are chauvinists. This conversation may trigger you. And if it does, I invite you to lean in a little deeper and get curious. Let’s keep this conversation going.  

“We stand in our fury and anger of the status quo and don’t do anything about it and then we think really hard bad thoughts and expect the other person to hear our bad thoughts. And then we get mad that they can’t hear our bad thoughts instead of using this oratory device called our voice.” – Robert Kandell

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